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Maybe Chatbots Shouldn’t Get to Say ‘I’ or ‘Me’

In a Q&A with Wired's Steven Levy about the new book Artificial Intimacy, MIT professor Sherry Turkle argues that chatbots should be barred from speaking in the first person, and criticises the phrase "human in the loop" and reliance on AI for emotional support.

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Why it matters

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What it means for you

Turkle warns that talking to chatbots about feelings, or letting children do so, may erode real human contact.

For lawmakers

Floats a concrete rule, no first-person speech for chatbots, though the interview gives no legal detail.

The question it raises

Asks whether a system with no body, fear or family can offer anything like human care, and what is lost if people accept it as a substitute.

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“An AI won't ever replace human conversation. It’s really not afraid of death, it’s not afraid of illness, it's not afraid of pain, it doesn't love its children, and it doesn't care if you kill yourself or make dinner.”
Sherry Turkle, MIT professorTurkle's answer when Levy suggests chatbots may be a different, not worse, form of conversation.
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“When they use that term, it means the human has been taken out of the productive process and is there to do some sort of cleanup work, to catch the hallucinations or things the AI doesn’t see.”
Sherry Turkle, MIT professorTurkle explaining the objection to the phrase "human in the loop" in workplaces.
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“If there's a crisis of loneliness, it's because we're abandoning each other. Give me one data center, and I will turn it into resources for the elderly.”
Sherry Turkle, MIT professorReply to Levy's point that many people have nobody to talk to and find chatbots help.
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The record

Questions
How is AI changing childhood, health and daily life? · What values should AI have, and could it have a mind of its own?
People
Sherry Turkle (Speaks, MIT professor) · Steven Levy (Wrote it)
What we read
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The Radar, run of October 17, 2026, via wired-ai (tier 2: a major outlet’s own reporting)
Cite this
Wired, “Maybe Chatbots Shouldn’t Get to Say ‘I’ or ‘Me’”, October 16, 2026. Entry in the Ctrl AI Base, https://ctrlai.com/base/wired-2026-10-16-chatbots-first-person-turkle
Our notesInterview is edited by Wired; the text reads as a polemic and shows the book's argument, not new data. Levy's remark that the book is a polemic is Wired's description.