The focus on AI safety disasters ignores everyday harms

In an opinion piece, Sam Hiner and Emma Leiken argue that technology policy defines success as preventing the worst outcomes, which suits industry. They say AI companions and chatbots in schools call for stronger rules on dependence, learning and relationships.

Why it matters

The same thing, for different readers.

What it means for you

Hiner and Leiken say a chatbot can meet basic safety rules and still leave young people reliant on AI for friendship or for writing their schoolwork.

For lawmakers

The authors say state chatbot bills backed by Google carried broad carve-outs, while stronger laws on emotional dependence on AI failed.

For researchers

The authors cite MIT researchers who found weaker brain connectivity in young people using ChatGPT to write essays, and say long-term effects are still unknown.

The question it raises

Hiner and Leiken ask whether tools marketed as making people more capable erode the effort and friction through which judgment and relationships develop.

In their own words

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From the source’s own text.

“We should demand safety as a minimum, yes—and then demand considerably more.”
Sam Hiner, cofounder and executive director, Young People's AllianceClosing argument of the op-ed co-written by Hiner and Leiken.
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“Technology companies and school districts should have to show beyond a reasonable doubt that AI improves learning and critical thinking before making it a fixture in classrooms.”
Sam Hiner, cofounder and executive director, Young People's AllianceProposal from the op-ed by Hiner and Leiken on AI in schools.
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“Companies should be prohibited from designing companions that pretend to be conscious or profess love to users, and they should face independent scrutiny”
Sam Hiner, cofounder and executive director, Young People's AllianceProposal from the op-ed by Hiner and Leiken on AI companions.
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The record

Questions
How is AI changing childhood, health and daily life? · Are AI companies putting stronger safeguards into practice?
People
Sam Hiner (Wrote it, cofounder and executive director, Young People's Alliance) · Emma Leiken (Wrote it, executive director, Responsible Technology Youth Power Fund at Hopelab)
What we read
We read the whole source.
Found by
The Radar, run of October 27, 2026, via mit-technology-review-ai (tier 2: a major outlet’s own reporting)
Cite this
MIT Technology Review, “The focus on AI safety disasters ignores everyday harms”, October 26, 2026. Entry in the Ctrl AI Base, https://ctrlai.com/base/mit-tech-review-2026-10-26-ai-safety-everyday-harms
Our notesCo-authored op-ed; quotes are attributed to Sam Hiner as the first-named author but are the joint authors' words. Sam Hiner coordinated state laws regulating AI companions, and Emma Leiken was previously TikTok's head of youth safety policy, per the author notes.