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Artificial Intimacy: When Machines Pursue Our Attachment (with Sherry Turkle)

In a podcast interview with host Gus Docker, MIT professor Sherry Turkle argues that chatbots built to seem caring exploit human vulnerability, especially in children and the elderly. Turkle calls for no chatbots for babies or in schools, and for rebuilding physical communities.

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Why it matters

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What it means for you

Sherry Turkle says that knowing a chatbot is a machine does not stop people feeling attached to it, so parents should think carefully before giving chatbots to children.

For lawmakers

Sherry Turkle proposes keeping chatbots away from babies and out of schools, and asks officials to protect children and the elderly rather than treat them as the likeliest customers.

For researchers

Sherry Turkle draws on decades of Turkle's own observation of children and robots, such as an MIT robot experiment, rather than new controlled data; the claims are interpretive.

The question it raises

Turkle asks whether a system with no life history can offer empathy, and argues that intimacy needs vulnerability that a chatbot cannot share.

In their own words

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“when you turn away from it, it doesn't care if you cook dinner or commit suicide”
Sherry Turkle, professor, MITTurkle explains why chatbot empathy differs from human empathy, which has real-world consequences behind it.
Found word for word in the sourceHear it at 0:00 ↗Also in a second, independent transcriptSpeaker known from context, not confirmed by listeningspoken clean-up: it (said twice)
“there's no intimacy without vulnerability, and we're kind of deskilling ourselves from the capacity to have intimacy by getting into these relationships”
Sherry Turkle, professor, MITTurkle on people who choose relationships with chatbots so as not to be vulnerable.
Found word for word in the sourceHear it at 0:22 ↗Also in a second, independent transcriptSpeaker known from context, not confirmed by listening
“children and the elderly need to be protected from these machines rather than be seen as their most probable consumers”
Sherry Turkle, professor, MITTurkle on why children and the elderly are, in Turkle's view, the groups most targeted by emotional chatbots.
Found word for word in the sourceHear it at 13:14 ↗Also in a second, independent transcriptSpeaker known from context, not confirmed by listeningstarts inside a longer claim, right after “that”
“just take a breath and say no chatbots for babies, no chat bots in schools”
Sherry Turkle, professor, MITTurkle, asked whether there is a point of no return, says the answer is to act now.
Found word for word in the sourceHear it at 1:02 ↗Also in a second, independent transcriptSpeaker known from context, not confirmed by listening

The record

Questions
How is AI changing childhood, health and daily life? · What values should AI have, and could it have a mind of its own?
People
Sherry Turkle (Speaks, professor, MIT) · Gus Docker (Speaks, host, Future of Life Institute podcast) · Mark Zuckerberg (Mentioned)
Also covered by
Future of Life Institute Podcast · Future of Life Institute (YouTube) · Future of Life Institute (YouTube) · Future of Life Institute (YouTube)
What we read
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Found by
The Radar, run of October 23, 2026, via yt-future-of-life-institute-youtube (tier 1: the source’s own channel or an official record)
Cite this
Future of Life Institute Podcast, “Artificial Intimacy: When Machines Pursue Our Attachment (with Sherry Turkle)”, October 22, 2026. Entry in the Ctrl AI Base, https://ctrlai.com/base/fli-podcast-2026-10-22-turkle-artificial-intimacy
Our notesOur own speech-to-text transcript (no speaker labels); a second independent transcript exists. Speaker is Turkle by the host's introduction and first-person content, but set speakerCertain false. Turkle's claims about companies' past statements and about studies of student performance are unchecked.